Does he still love me? | 10Tips to make your love last | 10Tips

“Love,” the word itself holds a thousand meanings, some sweet, some tragic and some as pure as the first flower of spring. The word is appreciated by some and misused by many, but it has such a huge impact on a person’s life that we dedicated a day to it. A day to celebrate the word love, a day known to all as Valentine’s Day.  But what happens after that? What happens when your day of love is finally over? Do you forget them or become to busy for them? Or do you remind them every day, how much you love them? Show them that your life is incomplete without them. Let 10Tips help you come up with 10 ways to keep your love alive.

Greet the one you love when they come home

Life can be harsh and people can be harsher, so when your lover comes home after a long day, don’t ignore them. Welcome them with sweet phrases such as “Hey…welcome home” or “How was your day?” It makes them feel that you still care and still keep an interest in what happens in their life.

How’s your health?

As weird as it may sound, keeping a track of your lover’s health is also a very sweet way of expressing love. Going for weekly check-ins at your nearest clinic with your spouse or partner also shows how much you care about them even now.

Want to go on a date?

It may have been a long time that you have been with your partner, however that doesn’t mean that you stop doing the things that you used to in the past. Like going for long walks, candlelight dinners, night shows, picnics, or anything else you might have done together. So, go on a date again, show them the love that they deserve, and remember to ask, “Want to go on a date?”

Are you okay?

When was the last time you asked them if they were okay? It’s been long, hasn’t it? Well don’t feel guilty, because your own life is filled with stress as well, so you know you forgot. However, don’t come crying they look pissed and you have no idea why. So what’s the solution, just ask, “Hey, are you okay?” Or “did something happen at work?” Trust me they help.

What’s the one thing you love about me?

Remember how when you guys were dating, you would constantly tell them, how much you loved them and wanted to be with them. Well, you can still do the same by telling them why you love them every day. It makes your spouse feel appreciated and loved while also giving them butterflies when you say the word, “Hey…you know what I love about you?”

Express your love

The three beautiful words, “I love you,” hold a lot of weight and immense meaning, so if you don’t say it often, then you might be the reason your love seems dead. Saying these words may embarrass you now compared to when you were young, but they still hold a lot of value for your partner, so tell them every day, how much you truly love them.

Look em in the eye

The eyes hold a thousand secrets, so when they let you stare at them, they also allow you to take a plunge into their soul and learn a bit more about them. So, stare at those eyes, because what fuels your relationship is not big words but these small actions.

Keep that phone aside

The internet is an interesting place after all no internet means you miss out on all those funny cat videos. However, what about your partner? Don’t they deserve your attention as well? So, why not give love a chance this time over a crazy cat on the internet. Keep your phones and laptops aside, and just pull them into a hug, a little cuddling makes a lot of difference.

Little things

Sometimes, it doesn’t have to big gesture, sometimes, it’s the little things that you do for the one you love that keep that bond alive. Things like bringing them flowers, buying them chocolates, booking a spa day together, or simply taking them out for dinner. These gestures may seem small and too tiring, but trust me they go a long way.

Surprise the one you love

So, yes, of course, you already surprise them on their birthday, but what about the other days? Just because there aren’t any events going on, doesn’t mean you can’t surprise them. How about surprising them with game tickets to their favorite team’s game, or taking them to the amusement park or even better getting a cute puppy/ Kitten. Trust me, you don’t need an event to surprise the one you love, you just need a reason.

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